Overwrite boringSSL's default key exchange preferences with safe
defaults using feature flags:
* "kx-pq-supported" enables support for PQ key exchange algorithms.
Classical key exchange is still preferred, but will be upgraded to PQ
if requested.
* "kx-pq-preferred" enables preference for PQ key exchange,
with fallback to classical key exchange if requested.
* "kx-nist-required" disables non-NIST key exchange.
Each feature implies "kx-safe-default". When this feature is enabled,
don't compile bindings for `SSL_CTX_set1_curves()` and `SslCurve`. This
is to prevent the feature flags from silently overriding curve
preferences chosen by the user.
Ideally we'd allow both: that is, use "kx-*" to set defaults, but still
allow the user to manually override them. However, this doesn't work
because by the time the `SSL_CTX` is constructed, we don't yet know
whether we're the client or server. (The "kx-*" features set different
preferences for each.) If "kx-sfe-default" is set, then the curve
preferences are set just before initiating a TLS handshake
(`SslStreamBuilder::connect()`) or waiting for a TLS handshake
(`SslStreamBuilder::accept()`).